Sunday, January 19, 2014

Face Enemies with Open Arms

My husband said to me today, "You are brave.  You face everything."

Yes I do.  Life isn't about regrets, grudges and anger.  Don't get me wrong, there are some relationship in life that can not be mended and not everyone is gonna be all jolly and love with one another, but sometimes running away from relationships that never had a closure, well needs to be closed or repaired.    

I came in crossing with someone I knew who in my life was in and out.  We didn't end our friendship the greatest but looking back, we had more good than bad.  Though some times in life, awkwardness kicks in and some times space grows further.  I've always been a person who wants good karma.  When I hear of her name, I smile.  So today I did it.  I messaged her and told her how I missed her, thanked her for her life lessons and wished her well.  Yes I can sleep well tonight but what's more gratifying is we both had our closure and now can continue growing our friendship in a positive way.  We had our smiles.  A smile a day is the best day.   

Life isn't about being bitter.  You make the best of what you can.  Some people fit in your life.  Some people don't.  Not everyone is meant to be in your life and it's okay.  Though, some friendships are worth keeping because it helped you grow and become better.  Those are the people you wanna keep.  Moving forward.  Carrying on.  Being positive.  I'm all smiles.  

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